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How to Teach Kids Express Emotions if They Can’t Talk + DIY Emotions Box

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From the day my husband and I brought our first-born home and made it through the first sleepless night, I asked myself: why don’t kids come with instructions? Just think how much easier the parenthood would have been if you could know exactly what the problem is and find the best fitting solution. Instead, we try to pick on the clues in the attempt to understand what the child of ours wants and hope for the best.

What is the emotions bubble and the child doesn't know how else to express himself? What's next? Here comes the roaring meltdown with all its loudness, ugliness, and obnoxiousness!!! I've experienced that a lot with my son and as a mother, I hated these moments - I couldn't help, because I can't understand him and my desire to fix everything just irritated my son and resulted in more screaming and wiggling.

Emotions are what separates us from the rest of the animal kingdom with even a day old infant expressing emotions by crying. Growing up, our adorable children gift us with more complex emotions as eventually, their speech comes along to replace babbles and mumbles and things get easier… sort of.

I Can’t Talk, But I Can Cry!

But what if the speech is delayed? What if the emotions bubble up and the child doesn’t know how to express himself? What’s next? Here comes the roaring meltdown with all its loudness, ugliness, and obnoxiousness!!! I’ve experienced that a lot with my son and as a mother, I hated these moments – I couldn’t help him simply because I couldn’t understand him while my desire to fix everything just irritated him even more and resulted in louder screams.Eugene crying

The Little Voices in My Head

Is your child sad or angry? Don’t guess – let him show you! This might be a great way for a child to demonstrate to you exactly what he feels even if he can’t tell you. Have you seen “Inside Out” movie? Riley’s little voices might just become your best friends and all you have to do is to keep these characters handy – print the faces of Joy, Fear, Anger, Sadness, and Disgust.

Did you figure out how your child feels? You are half way there – now we need to teach him how to act out on his emotions in the controlled environment. That is where the box of emotions comes really handy.

The Box of Emotions

Supplies:

  • Empty formula tub (21.5 oz) or any container you find suitable
  • Soft fabric like flannel. If you want to cheat, get Duct Tape Fabric (it is as soft on the outside and sticky on the inside)
  • Scissors
  • Burlap Ribbon
  • Any decorative supply you find pleasing (loose buttons, black chalkboard stickers, etc)
  • Fabric Glue

Instructions:

  • I love big formula tubs – the lid locks, but it is easy to open. To save time I used Duct Tape Fabric, but you can use any fabric (or old receiving blankets) you have around the house. Glue fabric around the jar (cut the fabric into two pieces or easy handling).
  • Cut an oval piece of fabric and glue it onto the top of the jar.
  • Wrap burlap ribbon around the bottom of the tub and secure it with the fabric glue.


  • Decorations are optional but highly recommended. Feel free to paste charcoal stickers, fun buttons or any other decorations you have around the house. You can even let your child draw on it with fabric markers.
  • Paste Velcro strip on the front panel where you find it appropriate and let it rest for a while

Making Emotions

Click on the image below to print out the image and watch the characters help your child express his feelings. Inside Out EmotionsCut and glue them to a piece cardboard or laminate them to make sure they have a long happy life.

Put Velcro tape on the back of each emotion. As an alternative, you could buy the plush dolls at the Walmart.

Making Expressions

Does your child stomp his feet when he is mad or throws himself down on the floor? Maybe he jumps when he excited or barks like a dog? Does he hide under the table when scared or climbs on virtually anything? Create little cards that will show your son or daughter that it is ok to express our feelings. Put Velcro on the back of each card. My list includes the following expressions:

  • Count to 5
  • Stomp your feet
  • Squeeze the ball
  • Be a mouse
  • Jump high
  • Close your eyes

Your list might be big or small, however, make sure it is something your child is comfortable doing. Draw little cards that show expressions and put them in the can along with the emotions.

Ready to use your big box of emotions?

The next time your child is starting to fuss, sit him down, open the box, and ask him: How do you feel? Let him pick the character he associates himself with and paste it onto the box.

What do you want to do about it? Let’s pick three cards. By doing so, you are slowly shifting child’s interest away from cranky behavior to thinking about what he actually wants to do. Let him pick three cards and paste them around the character face.

Close the Box

Encourage your child to do what the cards ask him to. Regardless of the fact that your child might or might not want you to participate, but in any case, you will have a clear message of how your child feels.

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Comments

  1. Robin (Masshole Mommy) says

    July 2, 2015 at 1:13 pm

    Those are really cute ideas. My kids are dying to see this movie.

  2. Jennifer says

    July 2, 2015 at 1:39 pm

    These are great ideas. I think it’s important to teach kids how to communicate as early as possible.

  3. Jeannette says

    July 2, 2015 at 5:02 pm

    This is such a great idea! My youngest son has a speech delay so he has a really hard time expressing himself. I’ve been trying to teach him to communicate without words and this will be so helpful!

  4. Amy Desrosiers says

    July 2, 2015 at 7:03 pm

    I think my kids really need to see this movie. It seems like it would be so beneficial to them!

  5. Brandy says

    July 2, 2015 at 7:30 pm

    I so need to watch this movie with my kids, I am also on the look out for ways to share our emotions better. While my daughter and I are great at using our words, and my middle child is way better than he used to be, my youngest is now struggling to get a grasp on how he is “feeling” and finding a healthy way to express it. I May try this!

  6. Chelley @ AisForAdelaide says

    July 2, 2015 at 8:51 pm

    I cannot wait to bring my toddler to see this movie! I think she is going to both love it AND learn from it!

  7. Liz Mays says

    July 2, 2015 at 9:26 pm

    This could be so helpful for kids in the early stages. Sometimes they just haven’t learned how to express certain emotions in ways that others can see.

  8. Kelly Hutchinson says

    July 2, 2015 at 9:49 pm

    What a great project to get the kids to talk about their emotions. This is something my son struggles with.

  9. Autumn @Mamachallenge says

    July 2, 2015 at 11:31 pm

    This is great! My kids love this movie!

  10. Vera Sweeney says

    July 2, 2015 at 11:36 pm

    What a great project to help start the conversation about emotions. When they are younger the visuals are really helpful

  11. Sabrina @ Dinner, then Dessert says

    July 3, 2015 at 2:24 am

    Helping kids to understand their emotions is such an important part of their development

  12. Tiffany C. says

    July 3, 2015 at 9:03 am

    This is a great idea.

  13. Ann Bacciaglia says

    July 3, 2015 at 12:54 pm

    This is such a great idea. My friends Daughter is 5 and is non verbal. It is such a struggle for her to get across how she is feeling. I will have to share this with her.

  14. Tammy Roy says

    July 3, 2015 at 12:55 pm

    I cant imagine how hard it must be for non verbal kids. This is such a great idea to help kids. I will have to share this with my friends with little ones.

  15. Pamela:: Still Dating My Spouse says

    July 4, 2015 at 12:16 am

    What a great idea. Some adults need to learn how to express their emotions.

  16. Gabriel says

    July 4, 2015 at 5:30 am

    This is a good idea — toddlers especially get frustrated because they can’t always tell what they are feeling, which often leads to acting out. Helping them make something like this could really be helpful.

  17. Janie says

    July 7, 2015 at 8:04 pm

    My kids love this movie. Great activities to make with the kids. Thanks.

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