Mommy Mindset: Closing Milk Kitchen

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Weaning baby: When and How. This is one topic I don’t know much about. I never had much milk – I tried everything including pills to boost mlk production (and I felt very bad about it). With my second one I stopped breastfeeding when he was 3 months old – I just got a new job and I hardly had any milk, so I decided to stop. He didn’t care and I didn’t even feel any discomfort when I stopped breastfeeding. I actually felt bad about it – nobody including my body cared that the breastfeeding stopped. However, but I know a lot of you have different kind of problem when it comes to weaning. Do share Leila: My daughter and I struggled with nursing so it wasn’t a big deal. My son and I… oye. I nursed for 4 months, but due to my work schedule and the pressures at work (I worked at a medically supervised weight loss clinic and couldn’t do the program to lose weight until I wasn’t nursing any longer), I weaned at 4 months. I was miserable physically and emotionally. To this day (he is now 4) I wish I would’ve nursed longer and let him wean himself. I just keep telling myself “next time”. 🙂

LaVonne: Long I made the decision to breastfeed for 2 years. There were many difficult times, I will admit, but it was worth it. I quit breastfeeding 2 weeks after my Princess turned 2, and I think she did better than I did with the cold turkey change. Thankfully, I am able to stay home and could breastfeed when I wanted. I am pregnant and almost due with baby #2 and have already made the same decision for this one. Unless of course, he self weans.

Ghada: With my first, I had decided that I wanted to wean him when he was 1. For me that felt like the magical number. I was working from home – only having to go out to meetings a few times a week, so it was easy. He started to get bored of breastfeeding around the one year mark so it all worked out, we were done at about 13 months. This time around, I don’t know if I will make it to a year with Miss 6 months. Somehow their seems to be so much more going on…but I can’t seem to get her to take a bottle…that’s a whole other problem lol

Mary: I don’t think baby girl would let me wean if I begged, pleaded and bribed her with shoes. She is very attached to my boob but at least I am down to evenings and morning. She 26 months and if you told me before getting knocked up with my first that I would be a nursing mom but one for this long I would have laughed! My son weaned himself at 8 months. It was devastating but I continued to pump for a little longer. Part of me wants to be done but she just wants it way to much and I do love the closeness we share. I have to keep reminding myself that this is only a moment in comparison to her lifetime… besides pretty soon she will be a teenager, hating me and wishing I was not around and I will remind her of this, in detail bahaha

Emily: Oh, I wanted to cry when The Boy self-weaned at 16-months. I wasn’t ready at all! When he turned one, we nursed only in the morning and at night. Around 14-months, he wasn’t as interested in the morning sessions. By 16-months he was done. It was tough emotionally, I wasn’t ready to give that up. Having said that, if we’re fortunate enough to have a second child, I’d self-wean again.

Darcy: Before having my daughter I thought 1 year was the magic mark. We are still nursing at nearly 19 months. She is NOT ready and gets upset is I try to refuse a session. We nurse 3-4 times a day still but mostly morning and night. I want her to self wean but sometimes I’m just done, especially being preggo with #2. I kinda want her to be do e by the time baby gets here…she will be 2 then. I never would have thought I’d be an extended bfing mom!

Ghada: ‎Emily, I don’t think we are ever ready for it. Even when it’s kinda planned somehow it is the end of something very special. Mary, I like the idea of reminding them when they are older how much they used to loooooove us lol

Mary: ‎Darcy, how funny our girls seem so similar! I must admit, on weekends baby girl nurses more because I am there – I am sure if I did not work she would want it just as much. Ghada, I love that you agree! Thanks!

Leila: I agree – even if it’s planned, it’s still emotional. I miss it! 🙁

Emily: I’m envious of the mamas still nursing, and the pregnant mamas that will be doing it soon. {I think it’s time to try for another one!}

Leila: I second that!

Darcy: Sometimes nursing while preggo is no fun though! I’m tender from the pregnancy and I fear jealousy from Rissa when baby gets first dibs. Not sure I can handle tandem nursing…. Yeah I never thought this would be me!

Thank You  Leila of Life as Leels, Mary of iNeed a Playdate, LaVonne of Long Wait For Isabella, Emily of Nap Time is My Time, Ghada of Mama goes BAM, and Darcy of Tales From the Nursery for sharing your thoughts.

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